STORY

Die For Your Life

Written by

Yasemin Özer

23 Apr 2025

“The goal isn’t to live forever, the goal is to create something that will.”

Chuck Palahniuk

Semelparous creatures are born with a singular, all-consuming purpose: to reproduce once and die right where they are. So the organism devotes its entire energy and existence to that single reproductive event before dying. They look death in the eye, and it's cold and cruel, yet they still don’t look away; that makes them very special.

Their passing raises profound questions about what it truly takes to "go on": You can run for your life, but can you die for your life? Can you disappear so that something else might live, offering your place in this world?

Have No Fear

Semelparous creatures answer “yes” while they face it, all of it: the wonder, the unbearable mystery and the torture of being alive—on their own, without another stranger to help make sense of it all. They are as unarmed and uncertain as one can be, and still, they choose to move with life.

Old Man and Salmon

Like the salmon, that travels the oceans and then, driven by a magnetic pull, returns to the very river where they learned to run, as a wise fish who knows where it belongs before the sky collapses. Their journey ends with the same singular act of all semelparous creatures: to give life to the next generation, to pass it on. They embrace death like an old man tending to the roses in his garden, touching each bloom as if it were one of his children, adoring them for the last time. Just as the old man’s wisdom and memory belong to his garden and loved ones, salmon’s belong to the river and the lives it leaves behind.

Beautiful Things Don't Ask For Attention

Or like the agave plant that lives only to flower once in its life. For years, it grows silently, accumulating the energy needed for its “big bang” finale. When the sun is in its rightful place and the wind blows perfectly, the seeds break free from their one and only home like bright burning horses—losing themselves into the wind. The agave plant gives everything it has to the world without asking to be seen, leaving behind not a legacy written on a piece of paper, but in the dry breath of the desert, echoing far longer than any ink could.

Wipe Your Tears

We are so obsessed with names and funerals—who will cry, and who will sit there like a bare stone? Will our kids be late, and the flowers? What part of our existence will be remembered hopefully forever, carefully preserved in stories and frames? Still, I can’t help but think there’s something more beneath all that ceremony and anxiety: a shared purpose across all living things; not remembrance but continuance passing it on. Not just the genes and memories, but the love, the knowledge, the seeds, and the instinct to build a nest.

What matters most isn’t how our names echo in living rooms and at dinner tables, but what we’ve made possible. What we’ve left behind that can still grow without us: the hair of our children, the roots of a tree we planted in our garden, and the minds of those we loved. Our sourdough recipe, made fresh everyday with the shadow of our hands. The songs we once hummed that now live in someone else’s throat. The birds that still visit our trees.