
Photo:
Nat Geo
STORY
Not Scared Of The Dark
Written by
Yasemin Özer
3 Apr 2025
“Someone I loved once gave me a box full of darkness. It took me years to understand that this, too, was a gift.”
Mary Oliver,
“The Uses of Sorrow”
You Don’t Belong There
The deep sea is one of Earth's oldest mysteries, a world more foreign to us than the surface of the moon. It has never belonged to us; we’ve never walked on it and never staked out flags into its surface. We have filled its depths with our stories and our imagination. Sea gods, krakens, cities made of glass and coral. We’ve never reached it with anything but machines, myths and metaphors.
Messages for No One
And on every deep dive, we learn more about this place of paradoxes. This place where darkness is total, yet light is still born. Where pressure that would shatter submarines and the strongest bones is ideal for delicate, otherworldly forms to emerge, forms that are clueless of their strength and wisdom. Where creatures speak and shine into the void, never knowing if anyone will ever answer. They carry light into a place that may never return it. And still—they do it. What kind of faith does that take?
Hope Moves Slow
It is a realm where survival looks like surrender. Speed, something so many creatures strive for, is given up for stillness. Motion slows. Metabolisms dim. Eyes are useless, and sight is left behind in the light. In its place, other ways of knowing emerged—senses we barely understand: detecting vibrations, heat trails, and electrical pulses. Life revolves around finding pieces of food and hope; they can’t let panic or hunger take the lead—those are luxuries of a world with abundance. They have to be careful, slow, and quiet. Down here, even hope moves slowly. But it still moves.
Can You Stay
Deep Sea asks different questions:
You can run for your life, but can you stay? Can you root yourself in the unknown, let the pressure wrap around you, let the dark settle into your skin, and not disappear into the dark? Can you stay long enough to still find light, hope, and food? Can you live in scarcity without becoming… scarce yourself?
Let Go Or It Lets You Go
There’s something that unsettles people about the deep sea. The unease we feel isn’t fear, not really; it’s the indifference. A world that is just entirely itself. That’s way scarier than sharp teeth and giant sea spiders. A world that we cannot conquer or inhabit. But this is a place we can’t tame. We can only leave it alone—to go on, beautifully and brutally, without needing us at all. That could be our only legacy.
Don’t Fall In Love With The Deep Sea
Yes, the temptation to go deeper will always be there– like an unrequited love. But maybe we’re meant to watch that world from the sidelines. Let it go while we can, before we fall in love with it. Because the line between love and possession is thin. And we often can’t help but cross it, and curiosity blurs into control. And the deep sea, with all its paradoxes, must never be possessed or conquered. It asks nothing more but to be left as it is mysterious, ancient, whole. Totally in the dark.


